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Confessions of a First Time Mom- Pregnancy

May 8, 2017 by Katie Haller

Lately, I’ve been seeing so many people I know announce that they are pregnant with their first child. I always love seeing this, because it wasn’t long ago I was in their shoes. It brings back a lot of memories and emotions about my own experience. I was so excited for the future, yet so scared of the unknown. Today, with Mother’s Day being at the end of the week, I wanted to share my personal experience of being pregnant as a first time mom.

I had a difficult beginning to my pregnancy. I learned that I was pregnant not long after experiencing my second miscarriage. I never thought that I would go through anything like that when the time came to have a baby, so it caught me off guard and left me with a very distraught feeling that wouldn’t go away. The first time I miscarried, I was very disappointed, but also hopeful. The second time that it happened, I felt very alone. We had only been living in Las Vegas for a couple months and I hadn’t told anyone that I was pregnant. I was so saddened by the whole experience, that I was afraid to try again. It wasn’t long after that second miscarriage, that I felt like something was off. I kept waiting for my period to start, but nothing happened. I decided to take a pregnancy test and sure enough, it was true. I kept it to myself, in fear of it being too soon to tell, so I took one more test later in the week. Sure enough, it showed I was pregnant. The next morning I threw up and knew it had to be true.

18-week baby bump

My first trimester was long and miserable. I threw up almost every day. I was so tired and sick. I remember feeling so sad because I thought pregnancy was supposed to be an exciting and happy time in my life. I was worried all the time because I thought that something bad was going to happen to the baby. The one thing that saved me during this time, surprisingly, was going to work every day. As sick as I was, I never called in and I never threw up at work. It kept me busy and kept my mind off how yucky I felt. When I hit 12 weeks and was still sick I got concerned that the morning sickness would never go away. Then one day, probably around 15 or 16 weeks I didn’t throw up my breakfast. After that, I magically started to feel like a human again.

Once I got over my morning sickness, I started getting excited about my pregnancy. My ultrasound at 18 weeks was definitely a high light. I found out that I was having a boy and that everything was developing well. I was able to worry less and start to enjoy myself a little more. My belly popped out right around 20 weeks and that’s when I got really excited about styling my bump. I started my weekly maternity post on my blog which I really enjoyed. (You can check those out here) I felt good in my second trimester, for the most part. I did start to feel very uncomfortable around 22 weeks. As the baby grew, my body grew and stretched in ways it never had before, making it very uncomfortable.

28-week bump

By my third trimester, I had the perfect size bump and I felt as good as I could feel. I do remember feeling extremely anxious. I started watching people’s birth stories on youtube and reading lots of other blogger’s birth stories. I prepared myself for the worse. I was ready to get my little guy out, it didn’t matter how. Despite all my research, when the time came and I went into labor, I didn’t believe it. I had to google “water breaking” over and over again. It wasn’t until I started having strong contractions that I believed I was in labor.

It was a really weird feeling when I finally got to hold my little man in my arms. I was in awe of him and couldn’t stop thinking about the whole experience. As much as I was ready to get him out, I immediately missed feeling him inside me. I wanted to be pregnant again….if that made any sense?

Snuggling with my newborn

I would love to have another baby someday, but I’m not in a rush. I’m enjoying all the moments I can with Jack right now and our little family of 3. I do miss that feeling of being pregnant at times, and I look forward to experiencing it again one day. It makes me a little sad to think that nothing will be like the first time, but it does excite me to know that the next time I am pregnant, I will be sharing it with Jack too. I look forward to the day that I can make him a big brother.

What was your first pregnancy experience like? How was it different from your others?

Building a Marternity Wardrobe on a Budget

August 16, 2016 by Katie Haller

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When you’re shopping for your maternity wardrobe, it’s important that you keep in mind that you are only pregnant for 9 months. It may seem like a long time, but it really flies by. Plus, you’re really not showing at all during your first trimester, especially if it’s your first baby, so maternity clothes are something you only wear for a very short time. When I was pregnant, my goal was always to look cute and stylish without spending a lot of money on maternity clothes. I built my maternity wardrobe by buying only the essentials. I mostly bought nonmaternity clothes, because I wanted to wear them after I was pregnant too, however, there were a few maternity clothes that I did purchase.

Here are my 7 essential items from my maternity wardrobe that I couldn’t live without during my pregnancy.

Long Tank Tops- When I was pregnant, I stocked up on a bunch of long tank tops. I didn’t even bother with buying any maternity tank tops, I just bought regular tanks in a size larger than I usually would wear. I found that Target’s basic long tank tops (here) were great for stretching over my baby bump and H&M has some great long jersey tank tops (here) that worked great through my pregnancy.
Long Cardigan- I love my long cardigans and I loved them, even more, when I was pregnant. I loved layering them with all my long tank tops. I usually find really cute cardigans at Target (here) and H&M (here) for a great price.
Leggings- I found that there was no reason to buy maternity leggings for me. I fell in love with my Forever 21 leggings (here). I usually would buy a size small, but while I was pregnant I bought them in a medium and they went up higher on my belly, just like maternity leggings would. They worked great throughout my pregnancy and you really can’t beat the price at $3.80 apiece.
A Simple Dress- I decided to buy one maternity dress while I was pregnant. I was in my third trimester during the holidays, so I wanted a simple dress that I could wear over and over again. I ended up finding a cute one at Target (here).
Maternity Jeans- Even though I was able to wear my normal jeans throughout my pregnancy, I still wanted a pair of maternity jeans that I could wear comfortably. I ended up finding a pair from Motherhood Maternity (here). Since maternity jeans aren’t cheap, you really only need one pair, plus you really won’t need to wear them for very long. I didn’t even fit into maternity jeans until my 3rd trimester.
Maternity/Nursing bra- This is an absolute must-have maternity item. One thing I didn’t realize was that your rib cage expands as your baby grows, causing your normal bras to not fit around you. This is why it’s important to find a good comfortable wireless bra. This nursing bra from Target (here) was a lifesaver for me. I’m still wearing these bras and I may never go back to wearing my old underwire bras.
Belly Band- My belly band may have been the most important maternity purchase that I made while I was pregnant. The belly band helped me wear all my normal nonmaternity clothes all the way into my 9th month. I bought mine at Target (here).

Here are some ways that I styled my bump wearing these 7 essentials pieces.

These are 3 outfits wearing my 3 favorite cardigans that I wore while I was pregnant.

There was nothing more comfortable than leggings when I was pregnant. Here are 3 ways that I wore my leggings throughout my pregnancy.

This is the one maternity dress that I did purchase during my pregnancy. I stuck with a basic color like black so that I could wear it over and over again in different ways.

These are 3 outfits I wore wearing my maternity jeans.

These 3 outfits are all worn with my regular jeans wearing a belly band. My trick to fitting in my jeans was to wear low fitting jeans and use the hair tie trick, then I’d cover up with my belly band. It worked great, even in my 9th month.

Just remember when your building your maternity wardrobe, not everything has to be bought in the maternity section. Shop smart and pick out pieces that you can wear after baby too! Try to make the most of dressing your bump. It goes by fast!

Making the Most of Your Non-Maternity Clothes

March 6, 2016 by Katie Haller

Since I’m currently on maternity leave and pretty much living in my comfortable clothes, my creativity for putting together cute outfits is on hold right now. That’s why I decided to continue sharing some of my maternity looks.

As you know, I really enjoyed putting together maternity outfits during my pregnancy. In an effort to save money, I decided early on that I didn’t want to spend a lot of money on maternity clothes. Nothing against maternity clothes, but they tend to be more expensive than normal clothes and you can only wear them for a very short time. I was able to wear my normal non-maternity clothes right up until my little guy was born. I really enjoyed the challenge of finding new ways to wear my normal clothes to keep up with my growing baby bump. For me, the key was to find clothes that were stretchy and flowy. Anything that could fit over my big belly.

Here are some of my favorite non-maternity clothes that I was able to wear throughout my entire pregnancy.

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I bought this striped stretchy maxi dress at Target during my first trimester. I knew it would stretch so I’d be able to wear it for a long time. There really is no need to buy an actual “maternity” maxi dress, especially when you can buy a normal dress at a much cheaper price. Plus you’ll still be able to wear it after your baby arrives.

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I bought this tunic tank top at Kohl’s on clearance in the junior department early in my pregnancy. It quickly became one of my favorite tops to wear with my growing baby bump. I liked that it’s long and loose. I wore it a lot with leggings and boots during the winter. It doesn’t have a whole lot of stretch to it, so in my 9th month it was just a little too small, but I did wear it all the time while I still could.

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This loose-fitting tank top from Old Navy was another great top to wear while I was pregnant. I bought it before my baby started to show and I wore it all the way into my 3rd trimester.

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This LC Lauren Conrad blouse from Kohl’s has been a favorite top of mine for a while. I loved that I was able to wear it throughout my pregnancy. Since it’s loose-fitting and flowy, it worked great as a maternity top.

Now that I’m no longer pregnant, I’m happy that I don’t have a bunch of maternity clothes that I can’t wear anymore. Instead, I get to get back to wearing my normal clothes without my bump.

Third Trimester Outfit Reviews

February 24, 2016 by Katie Haller

Today, I would have been posting my weekend wardrobe maternity outfits for my 40th week of pregnancy. Thank goodness I’m not doing that today. Instead, I’m snuggled up with my little baby boy. I’m still recovering from my surgery, but I’m slowly getting better. I highly doubt I will be putting any cute outfits together anytime soon or going shopping for a while. I still need time for my body to heal and I need to get used to having a newborn in my life now. What I can do is to use this time to look back on my maternity style during my last three months of pregnancy and share some of my favorite looks that I wore.

The third trimester was pretty rough, especially as it dragged on into the last 2 months. Finding cute outfits to dress my enormous bump was hard, but I didn’t give up. It’s not easy to have an extra 30 lbs of weight on you and still feel good about yourself, but the more I tried to put myself together, the better I felt. I really didn’t buy too many maternity clothes, so finding clothes that fit me was a pretty big challenge. I mostly stuck to anything that would stretch over my belly, long tank tops worked out great and I still used my belly band a lot for wearing my normal jeans.

Here are some of my favorite outfits that I wore during the last 3 months of pregnancy.

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My bump went from big to huge in the last 3 months. Everyone wanted me to know that too. That was one thing that I didn’t like during my last couple months. Everyone had to comment on how big I was. When I was in public by myself, people would often look at me as if I was going to go into labor right in front of them. It got to the point where I only wanted to travel outside of the house with Kevin.

My third trimester baby bump growing.

Over all my third trimester was filled with lots of ups and downs. Like most women, I was extremely uncomfortable throughout my entire last trimester. In the last couple months I could barely sleep at night and work was getting really hard. It’s not easy trying to keep up with my energetic Pre K children all day. However, I do feel like I kept nice and busy during the third trimester, just trying to pass the time. We took a trip home to Michigan for Christmas and Kevin and I spent a lot of quality time together; going out together and organizing the house on our Saturday’s off. The best part of my third trimester was that I got to meet my baby boy 10 days earlier than expected. I was so relieved that I didn’t have to worry about an over due baby. The doctor had wanted to induce me today if the baby hadn’t been born yet. I’m so glad that didn’t happen and he came naturally on his own. Now I have a very healthy little baby boy at home with me. My heart feels full.

My family

Have a wonderful week!

My Birth Story

February 20, 2016 by Katie Haller

When it came to childbirth, I was always pretty relaxed about it. I am not the kind of person to come up with a detailed birth plan with all my wants and wishes. My birth plan was always to get my baby out as safely as possible and if I could make it less painful, then that was good too. I’m so glad I didn’t have a birth plan that I felt I had to stick to because my birth experience was nothing that I could have planned for. I talked with friends who have had kids, I read blogs of birth stories, watched birth stories on YouTube, but nothing could have ever prepared myself for what I experienced. Everything that I thought would happen, didn’t happen. I wasn’t going to share my birth story at first, but after going through with it, I realized every woman has a different story, and maybe mine might help some first-time mom like myself.

The morning of the day that my water broke. I thought I looked huge, little did I know my little guy was wanting out.

Labor

Wednesday, I went through my normal day. I went to work, Kevin and I took my car in to the dealership for a check, we came home and had a normal evening together. I had no signs of pain throughout the day. Then at about 10:00 pm, I woke up to go to the bathroom. I noticed some extra water coming out of me. I thought I was just losing control of my bladder, but it didn’t stop there. I kept feeling leakage. I spent an hour googling “water breaking”. Since I had no contractions, I thought I had plenty of time to get to the hospital. I didn’t want to wake up Kevin yet, so I went back to bed. About 1:30 am I woke up with a pretty strong, but bearable contraction. I decided to time them. Before I knew it, they were less than 5 minutes apart. I got Kevin up and he got ready as I tried to pack a bag for the hospital and clean my kitchen. (It was 10 days before my due date, so I was a little unprepared.) When we got to the hospital, I was in so much pain, it was horrible. I was checked around 4:30 am and I was dilated to 4 cm. There were so many babies being born on that day, that I got the last delivery room on the floor, which was doubling as a hospital storage room. They were able to get me an epidural right away. The epidural was amazing. It helped make the pain go away and I felt relaxed. The nurse checked me right after the epidural kicked in and I was already at 8 cm. She told me I pretty much had dilated all the way to an 8 on my own without the epidural. She also said I would probably be having my baby by lunchtime. I was happy that things were moving along so quickly. I thought that maybe my labor wouldn’t be so bad after all. I was wrong though.

Pushing

Between 8 and 9 am, I was dilated to 10 cm. Instead of pushing right away, they had me in a couple different positions to help bring the baby down. The nurse would leave me in a position for 15 minutes then she would have me push a little, then switch positions. We did this for an hour in a half or so. Then she started having me really push. This was the hardest part by far. The nurse had turned off the epidural, so I could feel the contractions and know when to push. It was so exhausting, frustrating and painful. No matter how hard I pushed, the baby would not come down. The nurse said I was doing a good job pushing, but the baby just wasn’t having it. He was always cradled on my left side and he kept turning his head, making it harder for me to push him out. After a little more than 2 hours of pushing like that with no results, the doctor said we would have to do a c-section. Of course, I didn’t want that. I was determined that I’d just get him out myself, but of course, that didn’t happen. Before I knew it the epidural was turned back on and I was being wheeled into the operating room.

Delivering

I really never thought that I would need a c-section. I had such a healthy pregnancy, I was not prepared for this at all. I was disappointed that I wouldn’t be able to hold my baby or see him when he came out. Kevin was so calm and it comforted me just to watch him. I could tell from his eyes what was happening. Before I knew it I heard the sweetest little cry in the world. Kevin took a bunch of pictures and kept showing them to me. He was so cute. My favorite part was when the nurse brought the baby to my face so I could give him a kiss. He was perfect. The most beautiful baby I had ever seen.

Kevin cutting the cord

The first time I got to meet Jack. It was love at first sight.

Recovery

Unfortunately, I got the worst of both worlds. Pushing followed by a c–section means double the recovery. It’s not fun. This was another thing I didn’t expect. After the surgery, I was taken back into the delivery room while I waited for a recovery room to open up. I got to spend some time skin to skin with Jack and feed him for the first time. Later I went to the recovery room. I was so thirsty, all I wanted was a huge glass of water. The nurses told me that water would make me nauseous, because of the medicine I was given during the surgery. Finally, they let me have some water. I was just so dehydrated after all the pushing, but eventually, I did through up some of it. The nurses at the hospital were all so nice. I have a new respect for everything nurses do in their jobs. Caring for people can’t be easy and they were all so nice, patient and helpful. I had packed a cute going home outfit with my yoga pants and a cute cardigan, thinking I’d be walking out of the hospital with makeup on and my hair done. Yeah right! I quickly learned that wouldn’t be happening. I barely fit in my baggy pajama pants, because I was pumped up with so many fluids, my legs were so swollen. I got to go home 48 hours after birth, but it was scary to leave the hospital. Luckily I had help on the way.

Skin to skin time

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Daddy and Jack

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Over all, my birth story was no walk in the park, but when I’m holding my little baby Jack in my arms, I know it was so worth it. He is the most beautiful baby I’ve ever seen. He’s beyond perfect. Kevin has been an amazing husband and father. He never left my side at the hospital and since Jack came 10 days early, he had to work this week. Thankfully, we had family that was willing to come into town early from Michigan and California, to help us out with the first few weeks. Each day has brought new challenges for us, but we are definitely making our way. Besides, recovering from surgery is much better when you have such a cute little guy to snuggle up with. I’m so grateful for everything.

New Baby!!

February 17, 2016 by Katie Haller

I’m so excited to introduce you to my sweet baby boy! Jack William was born on February 11, 2016, at 2:13 pm. Jack surprised us by arriving 10 days early and weighing in at 7lb 15oz. I’m so glad he decided to show up when he did!

He is absolutely perfect and Kevin and I couldn’t be more in love with our little boy. We’ve been adjusting to having a baby in the house and I’m trying to heal my body up after having an unexpected c-section, but mostly, we are all just enjoying our little bundle of joy.

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