This weekend my husband and I will be celebrating our 7th wedding anniversary. In some ways, I feel like we just got married yesterday. In other ways, I feel like we’ve been together forever. It’s hard to remember my life before we got together. I don’t typically like to get too personal with my blog posts, but since May is our anniversary month, I wanted to share a post on marriage. I’m not an expert on this topic, so it makes me a little nervous to talk about, but I’m not really an expert on anything I post on this blog, so I figured I’d go ahead and post it anyway. Besides, it’s a perfect excuse to share some of my favorite wedding pictures.
You can’t be selfish
I’ll admit it, I’m a selfish person at times. I like to do what I want, but when you’re married you can’t be that way. You have to make compromises. It’s not always easy, but sometimes you learn that things turn out for the best when you find a common ground.
Have a plan/ set goals together
I married a planner. He plans everything and he’s never disappointed me. It’s important to sit down and talk about your future together. You need to talk about your financial goals, your family goals and your career goals. The best thing in our relationship has been the open and honest communication about our future together. They say life is what happens when you’re making plans, but that’s why the plans are always changing to keep up with your life.
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